There could be many reasons why you were not called back. Sometimes it can be a simple reason and sometimes not. Some women will say to a man, "If you aren't feeling me, just tell me and it will be OK". This can be true sometimes, but more often than not its just NOT enough to be that straight forward.
Men by nature are creatures of habit and we operate off of conditioned responses. If a man isn't feeling you he can say, "You are a very nice person and we had a good time, but I don't think its going to work between us. I don't think we should talk anymore." At that point the man wants to get off of the phone and move on. The reason why this isn't commonly practiced is because on the other end of the phone this information is not easily accepted.
Some women need closure and they also need to ask questions about WHY they weren't the one for you...etc...etc..etc. This type of Q&A session is like kryptonite to a man who is already DONE dealing with you.
So the conditioned response for a man is that if most women I meet and at some point don't want to deal with want the WHY??, then I'd rather not deal with it by not calling. After a while they will get the hint and stop looking for the closure. If woman # 1-20 did it why would YOU be different.
Some women will say, well I don't give a damn about the closure, he was just rude by not calling. If we assume you want the closure then we'll take "rude" all day to have piece of mind and SILENCE.
It's a hard pill to swallow for both men and women when we find out that the person that we really like doesn't like us in the same way. Unfortunately, its a reality for most of us on this planet. We have to know this and deal with it accordingly.
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